I tell you, it only takes a short period of not being able
to drive to really begin to appreciate the privilege! In fact, I've said for
years that the best things about heading into “second childhood” (that rather condescending phrase) is that you get to be playful AND you can drive, unlike
first childhood. So that period when my faux knee was still too new and painful
to let me get behind the wheel lasted about half of forever.
But I'm back! And you know where my wheels would just
naturally be heading – shopping on driveways. I ventured out with Judy a couple
of Fridays ago (she actually drove that time) to a few sales, and only bought
at one. It was the same folks down the street from my house where I bought 5
pairs of great shoes last year for a buck a pair (Danskos and Keens – who would
pass up that deal?) I was much more restrained this year…I only bought 4 pairs
of great shoes for a buck apiece! Keens, Danskos, Sketchers,
and this cute
summer pair.
Plus I splurged fifty cents on a framed original
watercolor. I know, I know, ever the big spender!
But today I actually did splurge, because I fell in love. With
some dishes. Because about 3 days ago I was putting my clean dishes away from
the dishwasher, and this little vagrant thought passed through my mind. Which was
that while I quite like the dishes I bought a year and a half ago in
anticipation of moving into my own house, I didn’t necessarily need to have a
lifetime commitment to them. One of the great things about living alone is
that I have only myself to please in these domestic matters.
As I made my rounds this morning, mostly on the west side of
town, I was finding nothing of interest to bring home. But I was really
enjoying myself because I was listening to a terrific recorded book, Blink by Malcolm Gladwell. If you haven’t
read it, run to your library today and check it out. Fascinating stuff. All about
how we make fast judgments and decisions, and how they can be more reliable
than well-deliberated ones. So it was undoubtedly being under the influence of
this book that made me spot a woman at a sale and instantly think “I bet she’s
a fun person.” As I got out of the car I wondered if I'd get a chance to test
my snap judgment.
Well, all three ladies running the sale were great, friendly
and outgoing (a middle aged daughter, her mom and grandmother). I heard one of
them giving the entire history of a bicycle that had come into the family in
1971. You know how I love that kind of background. I wasn’t seeing anything to
bring home with me until I reached a table full of fabric in the back of the
garage, and since I recently did a major purge in my studio and have
room again on my fabric shelves, I treated myself to this pretty piece, two
yards for two bucks.
As I was leaving, I got into conversation with the mom, who
asked me about the sweater I was wearing. It's an upcycle I created a while
back, starting with an Irish linen sweater I picked up long ago.
She noticed
details that no one has ever seen before, so of course I thought she was
brilliant! She’s now on the search for a similar cardigan to remake for herself
(since I declined to hand over mine!) because she’s in a vintage golf group
that only used old clubs and dresses in vintage-ish clothing to play. She was
the one I'd made my snap judgment on, and I was absolutely spot on!
Made a couple more fruitless stops after that, both of which
had fairly steep driveways – I was glad I had my cane with me. (Rehab is going
great, but I'm still being pretty careful.) The last sale on my list didn’t look
like they had much, but there was a cute dog wagging at me, and I make it a
point always to stop for a cute dog. Apparently what this cute dog was trying
to signal to me was “Get over here! There are some dishes on that table you are
going to LOVE!”
He was so right. Gorgeous dishes, Wallis by Goebels of
Germany (yes, the folks that made Hummel figurines for so many years).
I was
immediately smitten by their beauty, noted that the set has more pieces than
the one I've been using (including a teapot, creamer, sugar bowl, and jam pot,
as well as very cool bowls),
and after the world’s shortest negotiation over
price (would you take --? Yes!) they were mine. Not only that, the lady selling
them gave me a big hug because she had so hoped the right person would come
along who would love them – and there I was.
Don’t you love it when you can make someone’s day? And they make yours?